Home | Sitemap

Dating Advice
Online Dating

How To Stop A Break Up Even If You Are The Only One Trying

How to stop your breakup if your lover is already ready to go? This will require you to take a number of steps. Therefore, some patience is needed from your part. First, has you lover initiated the break up already and you want to get him/her back? If you have just break up, it is of utmost importance that you do not make the following mistake.

If you have already done that, don't worry too much about that. You still have the chance to reverse the situation. (Note: It doesn't matter whether you are a man or a woman, what you are going to learn below applies to member of both genders) 1) Do not argue about the breakup It may seem counter intuitive but if you really think about it, it will start to make sense. Arguing about the break up will only make your lover more defensive. Even if you can't accept the reason for breaking up, don't blow it up.

Chances are your lover may not even be telling you the real reason. Why is that so? There can be many reasons. Probably, he/she thinks that particular reason will hurt you least. So, instead of getting all work up about it, just try to stay calm and cool about it. I know it may not be easy but this can be very crucial.

If you have already done that, don't worry. You can send him a note during an appropriate timing, and say something like, "Well, I have thought about it, I think you are right about the break up". Once advantage of doing this is, you are showing your lover that you have the capability to handle things calmly. This will cast you in the positive light and with subsequent actions; you will be able to get him/her back to you again.

2) Don't be over persistent What do I mean by over persistent? It means contacting your girlfriend again and again. This is a very common mistake that a lot of people make, especially when they just broken up. Yet, this is the number one thing that you do not want to do just after a break up.

Why is that so? First, when you have just broken up, you won't be in the right emotional state to make the right decision or take the right action. Second, you do not want to appear needy or desperate. This will make you appear undesirable. If you have already been doing it, it is a good time to stop now.

How to stop a break up? You can watch a video "1st Step To Stopping A Break Up" at Magic of Making Up This video will show you exactly what you must NEVER do, what you should do to get back your ex and the psychological reason behind why it works.

Online Dating

Santa Rosa Free Chat Lines For Gay Men - Read up on the best free chat lines for gay men within Santa Rosa CA

Springfield Free Gay Online Chat Rooms - Read up on the biggest free gay online chat rooms inside Springfield MA

Santa Clarita Free Chat Lines For Men - Look at the perfect free chat lines for men in Santa Clarita CA

Oakland Gay Online Chat Rooms - Please consider the most desirable gay online chat rooms within Oakland CA

Santa Ana Free Gay Local Chat Lines - Take a look at our cheapest free gay local chat lines around Santa Ana CA


© Copyright vibeab.com All rights reserved.
Unauthorized duplication in part or whole strictly prohibited by international copyright law.